China's "new rich generation" for the education of their children away from the fighting How can upset the rich?

How much does it cost to buy the best education
Chain restaurants operating in the south of the Lee recently done business entrusted to a subordinate, has been running in Beijing. Give her 10-year-old son to find a good school in Beijing.
Small of her son上三年级now, the province in the local primary school. Pre-school is the "ceremony" with gifts, gave teachers face, these children when the pistachios can be "This kid has a long-term success in retaining its position as the lower reaches."Lee radical breaks down, "English mathematics passes were suspended, only primary schools, how do the future!"
She canceled his son's extra-curricular activities, spending huge sums to his remedial classes at the senior, "is not no money, I give him the best conditions for learning!"
Lee are most worried about their children not to provide a good learning environment, children from a young age and young workers on the bubble with嬉皮笑脸to do proper business. "What children and with very important people." She even reported that a prestigious school in Beijing EMBA classes, over the weekend playing the "flying" classes is to understand the considerable age of some children of university teachers, to learn from them how to educate our children .
Lee tried to do training as the second generation of successful people are not uncommon.
Mr. Tian 50 years, the oil business has done quite easily. He is the most worry about is the 8-year-old son's education.
Son and his ex-wife is now in Canada to live with, because from an early age by stimulating the disintegration of families, the sensitivity and depression, although the results were excellent eating antidepressant drugs have life. At the same time, foreign pollen allergy had, a little carelessness will be collapsed. Now ex-husband, his wife and daughter throughout the day students did not seek to improve themselves as big spenders, to the 8-year-old son is very good. And his wife because he was the eldest son of depression often make extremely concerned about his temper.
Mr. Tian was the middle-aged son, the youngest son too heavy, he wanted to play a great family, so my son's education is very confused: want to send their children to boarding school, it is feared that their children are too young are vulnerable to bullying ; let him at home, afraid of the complexity of family relationships to pull his son to the evil one.
Lee, Mr. Tian Beijing wants to send their children to boarding school quite common mind: The first is to stay away from secular families, food and clothing away from the stresses and weighing the complexity of the environment and the enjoyment of the family conflicts. The second is to allow children to eat bitter controllability, self-management as soon as possible to learn to live food. Exclaimed one of them is: "Let the children suffer also not easy to eat!" The third is the focus of more stringent school teachers will help the child by the influence of knowledge, to develop good habits.
They all think that his son is very smart, they inherited the good genes, a fly in the ointment is that the family can not provide书卷气culture, so they have great expectations on school education to the schools that teachers can take on the responsibilities of family education.
Hope that the greater the greater the disappointment. Ordinary primary schools are now full-time and can not be fully in line with their demands, they find ways to spend money on "cutting edge" on. In this way, major cities such as Beijing and Shanghai to accept the well-known boarding school students has become the first choice. And children of these parents do not mind whether to participate in college entrance examination, some students even go abroad soon, they go to school here is to "enjoy the best educational resources."
Reporters to Beijing's Zhongguancun, a small, three small, Beijing Second small experimental schools and their boarding call the Department received a reply beds are full, the field can no longer accept transfer students. Although Mr. Lee was told Hetian not transfer, but they did not give up, launched a business partnership with Beijing a gift, "bombing" of these primary schools.
What kind of schools away from the campus-fu fighting
Lee rebuffed repeated but with the address of friends, driving to Beijing to visit a number of 11 private schools.
"My wife and children of school locally is the most luxurious, and reading in primary schools in Beijing to know what is good condition. The quality of teachers is not the same! Speak neither overbearing nor the gentle." Do not like her small opening parents up to the teacher , say vulgar,curse at every turn.
But then people do not want.
West in Beijing on the first two days in a private school because their parents travel a lot, so it opted for boarding. In her view, more than 40,000 yuan a semester is not very worth the cost. She introduced, they have a six-year ban by the English performance was divided into three grades. She desperately wanted to go a group of learning is a double shift. "The latter two classes are the children of a wealthy family in particular, every day is more than rich, more than love, than to fight, I do not like them!" She said a lot of school children in Shanxi coal bosses, every weekend, luxury cars blocked at the school gate, frequent quarrels. "We avoided a few good friends who are rich soil of the children, they know that competition!"
A similar argument has also spread to the ears of Miss Li. 学Did not engage in learning to get away from the parents, have to add the smell can be terrible problems. She claims her son is education, although the martial arts group of children the city had the first, but never fights overexert; although there are a variety of toys to buy from abroad, but never got显摆class.
In addition, the small of English not good, to a foreign language as the only evaluation criteria not sure the status of schools, money to buy a confused sense of frustration, "do not study, I know that talk about food and clothing, see" Meteor Garden "where F4 band features a child's money, I would not worry about the small of it as. "
West told reporters that her mother took her to the elite schools in fact very difficult, and also big sacrifice. learning to have a good environment, and family well-off than children with mixed children and alleys better!" The 14-year-old adolescent girls very hard, good results in English, mathematics, or class piano exam is the forefront. She said: "I will need to learn science, the third year after graduating from abroad, which is planning a good long time ago, can not allow her mother to spend more, and I want to earn U.S. university scholarship Ivy!"
Mr. Tian's biggest hope is that his son can find a study to make improvements such as the West, good-natured students. But he also worried that "private schools is estimated at upward mobility encountered by children and simple probability is very low."
distress
Teach what is more valuable than money?
"However, the three generations of the rich" is the ancient Chinese. How to ensure that no spendthrift, so that their children be more successful than their own, or at least ensure that all available space will not be spending one seems to be a lot of " parents are most concerned about.
In response to these successful people confused scholars in the United States Xue Chung said that he lived in the United States more than a decade have not heard of "three generations of the rich but" is. In contrast, often see is that the wealth from generation to generation.In fact, from generation to generation, and not necessarily of wealth, but wealth creation and quality of skills. The United States after the death of the wealthy often donate property or even put out during his lifetime, not all children can dipping.

Confused period of three workplace response

Work on the job market after a period of time, the contemporary work of young people or even just six months to a year's time, often confused: What am I doing? Is in the realization of their own good?
My company can provide an ideal opportunity to realize their own right?
Do I need to look for new opportunities? ... ...
Generally speaking, there are upper, middle and lower three-pronged approach:
The worst - complained:
Thinking: are dissatisfied do not know why.
Behavior: complaining about businesses, complain about his boss, complaining about customers, colleagues complain, complain about their own, ... ...
Has not yet successful - understanding of the existing jobs, usually takes about two years time to start looking for other opportunities.
Analysis: sense of responsibility (primarily the responsibility of their own), the spirit of good jobs to the existing shortage of opportunities provided by mining, the capacity of accumulation can not achieve the necessary threshold switch.
Results: If there is no switch, you may give up on this, greatly affected the future of life, and even affect other people;
If the switch, and all of a sudden a good opportunity to find a small probability event, then quit to start a low level of pain frequently is the probability of event days.
Zhongce - patience:
Thinking: with the former, there is dissatisfaction, not sure why.
Behavior: patience, the spirit of a little nervous.
Analysis: sense of responsibility, the spirit of lack of job opportunities offered by the existing understanding, lack of excavation, not a sense of accomplishment.
Results: If over time realized why the Council is not satisfied, find the problem and take "the best", the sky will suddenly see the light work;
If you pass a long thought, or lack of action may be mediocre in this regard, sinking it, or even have a wrong understanding of the workplace, the impact of the development of life.
The best option - to seek to maximize the value of existing posts:
Thinking: with the former, there is dissatisfaction, not sure why.
Behavior: can not switch, but more importantly, not particularly good opportunity, the first work to the best available.What to ask ourselves did not expect, did not do it, do not do a good job, think of ways to achieve excellence, I believe do not understand things will gradually understand.
Analysis: sense of responsibility (especially to their sense of responsibility), the spirit of good mining opportunities based on existing posts, the establishment of a sense of the flu.
Results: If the efforts are not sufficient or the direction of the extent of a problem, the question remains over time may be much against their own doubts, you may then enter the "complain" or "patient" status. However, continue to insist on finding a new direction, effort, still have a chance;
the right direction and enough effort, the problem will be solved, this confidence-building work.
Some people start to want to understand the right direction and enough action, that is the best;
Some people have problems, and thought to understand the switch on the blind, a good opportunity to catch up with later development of very smooth, then I should congratulate this person - too lucky, it is a minority;
More people are having problems, and not so good luck, opportunities, only the above ", the Chinese, on the" three selected policy. As can be seen, three different policies, not the problem (thinking), but in actions and results.
Change the fate of action is the key!